No! this post is not intended for the readers but its more for myself but these three points i feel are very important
1. Don't try to change anyone neither expect them to change for you, let them be the way they are
2. No Ego! - please
3. Fight for your cause! but accept what you get, life is too good to spend it being upset.
Each one of the above points were told by three different people... thanks to you all